Mad for One,Made for one

I would like to tell you the incidental story of my meeting with one of my friends.

This blog is for people who are having relationship issues.

I would not declare the name of that friend for keeping his privacy intact.Let is Name him Rohan for this story.

Rohan was my classmate in college.He was descent looking guy during college days.I remember our first meeting when he was arguing with the teacher in a loud manner and I felt that he was right and was shouting to save his face.

We became friends as we used to sit at last benches of the classroom.That how boys become friends.

Being a Gujarati medium student all his life,Rohan was having no instant of talking to girls as it was cultural during schooldays,especially Gujarati medium.

During college days we have event to celebrate navaratri.A day before the event I asked Rohan to take his Event pass and the Food Pass.Rohan cleared told me What to do in Girls’ event?

I told it’s for all the students of the institute not all girls.Then he told Who shall dance in front of Girls’?

I am sighting this example to take your attention to the fact that Rohan and many like him never ever talked and interact with any girl,forget playing Garba.

But few days ago I met him with his wife.Rohan was in truely proffesional attire. He was too much happy with her.Infact both were happy.

I wonder How this guy has changed from a simple to joyful human being.?

First question I asked to him that are you engaged?He replied,we have married since two years.I was surprised to hear that because it doesn’t seem from happiness and joy they were in their own.

I asked how is your life going?Rohan replied with a joyful smile on his face that Thank to my wife I am having great time in my life.

I asked another question.What do you do for living ?

I am in silver manufacturing business.We are going limited in September four months from now.

Then his wife started asking me a questions.

Firstly she asked me with grace what do you do?

I told I am looking after an educational institute and working as digital Marketer.

She asked me what about your overseas MBA?

I told I left plan.

She asked Why?

I told because I want to live with my parents and family.

She asked taking all charge from her husband to ask…When You gonna marry?

I told I haven’t decided…

They told Marry soon…

Now I start asking questions…

Why to marry? Whom to marry?What to look for in a girl?What to look for in any girl? How arrange marriage happens😂?

They both gave me lifetime advise….

It started with few of the following suggestion:

Go for the one who is able to handle you.She would tolerate all your nuisance and non sense.And You would have to do same.

Go for the one whom you can share everything that is important for both of you at your first meet.

Never lie unnecessary,She would know everything in a little while.

Go for the one who believes you when World is telling you something contradictory.I believed in Rohan when he was hustling for life,Now see we are living our dream life in matter of few years.

I asked how to keep Relationship new even after years.I told you people seems happy and connected after two years.How is that possible…?

They told me they have spends money in lacs for a relationship course somewhere in ahemdabad to attain these beautiful relationship.I asked tell me all for free…😉They both started telling me one by one …

Be loyal…

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Make your wife your priority than yourself…

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Exchange your Social Media IDs’…

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Respect your in-laws…

Don’t ever dominate over spouse…

Listen your partner by telling that a woman needs nothing more than someone to listen long day happening…

After Marriage Family is First not the friends.

Attend functions of in-laws side…

Never speak anything Ill about your I in-laws…

Call your in-laws once a week…

Spare your time with your spouse every single day…

Be silent during family problems…Consult your partner after the problem…

Be the first to say sorry…

Take your spouse side if she is right…

Don’t ever forget her birthday and engagement/anniversary date…

Gift small things in surprising manner…

Having a Child should be decision of the woman…

Be emotional although you are man…

Appreciate her work as a housewife…

Appreciate her prepared food…

Don’t doubt,just ask…

Tell stranger woman you meet on same day with contact details…

Respect as you Respect your mother…

Give her opportunity to express her one hobby atleast…

Classifieds decision making…Ex – car,finance-you && shopping,Trips,food,outings-Her…

Your quality time is more important than expensive gifts…

Be Mad for one beacuse you are Made for one…

Soon I am going to write a book on this topic…And Good news is that it will

If you want it for free just mail me on rajkotdigitalmarketing@gmail.com

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